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Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Optical Scenario's !!! WHAT IS A RELATIONSHIP???

What is a Relationship??? Though there are Many Many Many Levels and Meanings to this Terminology!!! Whats Your Definition Of The word True? The books Read...A.Consistent with Fact or Reality:Not false or Erroneous B.Real: Genuine C. Reliable/accurate ( true Prophecy} -Faithful as to a Friend- What is Your definition Of Friend: (Noun) A PERSON WHOM ONE KNOWS AND WITH WHOM ONE HAS A BOND OF MUTUAL AFFECTION, TYPICALLY EXCLUSIVE OF SEXUAL OR FAMILY RELATIONS! Still With theses Accurate meanings People still get it Twisted!!! Some People are in your Life for a Reason or A Season and Some are Meant For A Lifetime... The Biggest Misconception is Not Applying These Simple Rules On behalf of All parties..
1. A true Friend is Honest, They have No fear in telling you the Truth Even When it Just Might hurt Your Feelings...
2.A True friend gives you Good Sound Advice...
3. A True Friend Understands You When you dont...
4.A True Friend Lets No Other Indivisual Come between That Special Bond..
5. A True Friend Explores Facts,Rather than assume Anything or take the word of Nay Sayers...
6. A True Friends Love Doesnt Waver, I Love You Today but Tomorrrow Im Gonna Throw You Under The Bus...
7. A True Friend Would Never Entertain Or Allow Anyone to Speak Negatively Of your Character...
Do You Love The People In Your Life Enough To Follow These Guideliines???
Here Are A Couple Definitions...
Friendship: The Quality or condition of being Friends;A friendly relationship;an Acquaintanceship...
Relationship:the way in which Two or more Concepts, Objects or People are Connected,or the state of Being Connected 2. the State Of Being Connected by Blood Or Marriage..
When you Love Someone No Matter what you've Gone Through with Them On some Level you still Love Them and Always Will!!! A Relationship can be Successful Or Unsuccessful, but this Doesnt Mean You Go Out Of way to hurt The other party! This Vengeful Spirit Thing that Many People Have Adapted to SUCKS... If I Love You today, Im Gonna Love You Tomorrow and The Day After that... Is it Worth It to Win An Argument that wasnt with you In the First place??? Communication is a MotherF_cker...People that are Close To Me I Can Literally tell when they're Being Fucked With... so i Know What Ever Emotion They're Displaying isnt geared towards me but The Effect from a Cause!!! Knowing Someone Would Never wanna See you Hurt, Or Go Through something detrimental Versus Someone Who would Laugh at and Through your pain... being Faithful, Being Loyal, Being Understanding, Unconditional Love for Whatever Reason is all that should matter...
A TRUE FRIEND KNOWS WHEN UR HAPPY OR SAD, THEY CAN DIFFERENTIATE YOU BEING MAD AT THEM,RATHER A SITUATION!!! A TRUE FRIEND HAS NO CHOICE BUT TO HAVE YOUR BACK AND DEFEND YOUR HONOR BECAUSE THEY LOVE YOU JUST THAT MUCH!!!
ALSO BEWARE: There are people Who Will Seek To destroy Your Relationships on All Levels, why I cant Tell You... Maybe its The fact That They Are So Miserable and Unsatified with their Own Lives that They Feel The Need/Want to Destroy or Cause Disruption in your Life!!! I WANT MY TRUE FRIENDS TO KNOW, TRUST , AND UNDERSTAND THAT BECAUSE I GET UPSET DOES NOT MEAN THAT THAT ENERGY IS OR HAS BEEN GEARED TOWARDS THEM IN ANY WAY, HELL IT MAY BE THAT SOMEONE OR ONE'S SAID SOMETHING STUPID TO PISS ME OFF AND KNEW THAT MY REACTION WOULD CAUSE AN UNSURITY,OR CAUSE DIVISION!!!
People We Gotta Do Better (LEAD BY EXAMPLE) the kind Of Friends That I want In My Life Is The KIND OF FRIEND I VOW TO BE IN ALL ACQUAINTANCES & RELATIONSHIPS!!! BE FAITHFUL, BE LOYAL, BE UNDERSTANDING, AND FOLLOW YOUR HEART AND WHAT YOU KNOW OF THE PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE!!! I DONT KNOW ABOUT YOU BUT WHEN I SAY THOSE WORDS I LOVE YOU, I MEAN IT FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART AND REGARDLESS OF WHETHER OR NOT OUR PATHS ARE MEANT TO BE CONJOINING OR CROSS , TRUST IN YOUR HEART THAT I LOVE YOU!!!!!!! THATS WHAT A FRIENDSHIP/RELATIONSHIP SHOULD ALWAYS BE BUILT ON,STAND FOR, AND BE!!! TODAY TELL THE PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE JUST HOW MUCH THEY MEAN TO YOU OR MORE IMPORTANTLY ***SHOW THEM*** LIFES TOO SHORT PEOPLE... LETS JUST LOVE EACH OTHER... LOVE IS NOT COMPLICATED, ITS THE MOST BEAUTIFUL THING EVER CREATED!!!

Monday, September 12, 2011

Do You Know???

When People Come to The Realization That This World Is Real and Sometimes People Allow ThemSelves to Be Led By A Fool!!! Our World Is Comprised Of Beautiful Creations,I mean Everywhere you Look Theres Something Of Significant Beauty!!! Maybe Because Your Mind Is So Use to The Ignorance around You, You cant Grasp That There Is A Power that You Cannot Defeat! You can Stomp On,Bad Mouth and Talk About People & Things that You know absolutely Nothing about When In Actuality If You OPEN your Mind and EYES to the UNIVERSE You might just Save Your LIFE!!! Its Easy to Under Estimate Situations,and People Because you Choose Not to Receive a GOD Given Knowledge! I Bet In History Alot Of People Under Estimated Things Because Just Because it wasnt Necessarily Spelled out For you You Believe Not.I Believe Some People Are Not Meant To Understand Some Things and Seperate ThemSelves From The Beauty They may Have Conceived While Being On This Earth!!! We Were Created For A Purpose, and In This Purpose are Consequences!!! What Happens If You Decide To Walk across the Street and DisObey The Obvious Flashing Light Saying Dont CROSS??? Ummm Duhhh You get your Ass Ran Over...I surely Hope Those that Are Chosen To Be In My Life Pay Attention To The DO NOT CROSS SIGNS!!! You Just Might Make it Across that Street Once or Twice and Get Away With Your Ignorance but Eventually Your Blindness Will Catch up With You!!! WATCH How You Walk,Speak,Talk,ESPECIALLY WHAT YOU SAY TO PEOPLE AND ESPECIALLY THE ONES YOU DONT KNOW!!! Your Blessing Or Curse Can Be right Around That Corner You Think Has A Force Field, Yeah Its A Force Field Alright But Its Seperating you From LIGHT and Hindering You from A Potential you Couldnt Even Imagine and ITS BEAUTIFUL... Its Called LIFE!!! WAKE UP....... What You think You Have gotten away with You Havent Fool!!! Yeah I know this Post May Loose sight To BLIND EYES but those Who Have the KNOWLEDGE will Be The ONES THAT WIN!!!!!!! Be Culturred,Be Wise, Ignore Utter IGNORANCE For It Will Have Its Demise!!! ***Vel Washington***